I'm reading that as "you're right, Kara", just so you know.
And they don't want to risk you. So it's even. Plus it's a vicious cycle because the people who love you get pretty intense when you're hurt, you know. So if anything happened to you, that just means they'll go after him without you. So better to work together from the start.
No, he's definitely not a Ron. Maybe Draco? Maybe you should ask them if they're interested in picking up one more, then you can go for a Marauder's vibe. Iris could be a Lily, Len could be a Sirius?
And shut up, they were part of my welcome to Earth acclimation. I might have had a costume once?