Okay but. How much has it come into play in Dinotopia? He hasn't mentioned past villainy happening here, and all anyone else has mentioned is a dino incursion and some iffy people skulking around, not doing anything. You are definitely not to the dating or keeping him happy part of life back in our real world, so has your moral fiber really been banging up against his moral fiber while other things are banging yet?
I'm not saying you won't work it out. But this is probably the first time it's getting actually put to the test since your relationship status got changed up so you should probably think about it as setting a precedent. Or something. And the precedent should probably not be "don't tell him you're freezing one of his arch-nemeses because he is a noble ass who will try to battle without a spleen".
But yeah. I'll back you. Plus this city is full of hero types and it's insane so there is backup.
Oh and just so you can't say I didn't say it, freezing him and then letting your partner roast him is ALSO against the hero code.
Kicking him in the nuts while his legs are frozen=totally cool.
I'll need to track down some equipment and tools. Felicity'll probably have an in.