Contrary to the popular assumption here some Jedi are actually permitted to marry. But it's a case of very special circumstance. Obviously marriage without some kind of vetting and approval goes against our practice but we didn't exactly have protocol in place for something quite like this..
Ben will do, if you prefer. I don't believe you actually have to refer to me as your husband or any of the usual terms of endearment when we didn't have a chance to consent to the arrangement.