2. I just realized how that could be taken and no. I didn't mean it like that. I meant that it didn't mean anything to her or to me and we barely knew each other. It was a biological function being treated as a right of passage by a brother who teased me mercilessly because I was uninterested in sex. It had nothing to do with the fact that she was a she. I like women. I, obviously, like men too. Gender isn't an issue. It's... emotional intimacy. I need a connection of some sort with someone before I can actually feel attracted to them in that way.