Terry.
1. That's unlikely. 2 and 3. You shop around for the therapist that fits you. If you don't like the first one, you keep looking. I didn't take to the first therapist I had when I was younger, but I really liked the second one. 4. You won't just sit there like a fool. 5. They can only talk to your dad if you let them. They don't have to give him reports on how you're doing or anything. This is between you and a therapist, not you, a therapist, and your dad.