Ginny
We have been looking forward to you joining our family for some time. It is not your relationship or even that you became engaged that was the issue. You chose an event that the Queen invited us to. Normally I would be all for making statements but that was a game of her own design and I don't know the stakes or outcome of it.
I'm sure she has someone else's life to make miserable and won't have time for it. If it becomes an issue, it is one I will deal with. Just do me a favor and stick to making a joke of the other nobles and leave her out of it.