Your Majesty.
Tonks has every reason not to want to be part of the family considering the treatment of her mother by the rest of them. As far as I'm concerned, considering the impression I have of the royal family and how they treat things that are deemed less important, why would I desire it? You say you want to know me now but when something else flashy comes along, maybe another of my father's bastards should one exist, what then? You'll forgive my hesitation. However, I have been trying to make an effort. After all, you are not my father and perhaps it's possible you are different.
In my mind and world? How about realit Don't worry, I don't expect a tiara to wear around the palace. Although I can't speak for Tonks. However, welcoming would be an acknowledgment. I don't need recognition but Tonks deserves it. She wasn't born out of wedlock, just out of an undesired match.