I know all too well how that is. I fight with my older brother and sister a lot too,only because I am independent and hate being overshadowed. But they are family and i would do anything for them.
This island sounds like it's too good to be true in a sense. I like the idea that there is modern conveniences here like schools,shops and what have you. It's nice seeing that the island doesn't take away life. I'd like to see more.
What kind of restaurant is it? You sound like you have a great personality for that type of job. Would you mind showing me around?