I mean he had a chance before I ever got serious with his brother and he did not take it.
I'm not going to force my presence on him (obviously, as I haven't spoken to him in a month - another reason why this seems to sudden and unusual), but all his complaints about no one being on his side is rubbish. He's pushing away everyone that gives a shit (pardon my language).
I'm sorry to have disturbed you. It was silly of me to contact you.