Hannah was, more than anything else, giving herself a bit of a mental kick for not anticipating the worst. Why had she thought that it would go as well as with her parents? Her father was excessively accepting, as he knew what she had gone through and wanted to see her happy in the end.
Hannah went along with passing plates and taking the bread basket, making a small plate with a small serving for Lucy off of her helping. She also made a point of carefully cutting the spaghetti. She, all the while doing it, kept it out of Lucy's reach. It was almost a force of habit with her to do it - and really, it wasn't terribly taxing to do it anymore. She was used to the ritual of it.