My apologies for jumping in on this, Jim, but I just wanted to say that I completely agree.
If it was anything involving Kylo, I wouldn't want to be making any authoritative decisions at all. Not that I want to make any authoritative decisions in the first place, I wouldn't even put my name in the running, but I shouldn't be making decisions involving my son nor should anyone be making decisions where an obvious personal bias in any direction is involved.