Son
I assumed the first two were part of your plan already and as long as you don't draw it out, don't intend to make them suffer, then I can accept it. I'm already dead there. All their deaths mean to me is that the three of us will be together again soon. And if it means you're closer to killing Snoke, then good. If that's what you have to do to be free of him, then that's what you have to do. I wish it wasn't, but I want him gone too.
And yes, I want to help you be strong enough to achieve the end of that, so I accept the rest of it.