It hasn't always been that way. But I learned the lesson the hard way, a few times, that it only makes things worse when you keep them all shoved away. Not everyone's going to hear what you're saying or give a shit, but that's why I didn't just say it out in the open for everyone. And you, you know, we haven't spent that much time together but you have a mom vibe and I admit I could occasionally use that.
I think that would help a lot, actually. I'm not really worried about anyone here, but just the act of doing it or knowing that it's there is what's helpful.