I am going to echo Darcy’s comment but I am also going to add that I am proud of you. It is far easier to hold onto your pride and be resigned to the fact you’ll suffer alone. But instead you had the strength to reach out to us for help during a time that is hard for you. Not many possess that strength.
I’m honoured that you consider me to be family. I’ll be here for whatever you need, dear. And if it helps you sleep at night I can place a ward over your room that only allows entrance to those you’ve given permission to enter.