same filter.
No one's saying you need to forget it or erase feelings, but to own our actions that follow on those. With few exceptions we're all adults or at least mature enough to be responsible for our own words and actions.
People shouldn't push that confrontation onto others like they have the same knowledge and experience as we do. Pretend they're not there, scream into the void, talk to someone who does remember, but there's no evidence we're all from the exact same timeline or that we're not creating new ones by virtue of being here. They may never do things in their future that happened in your past. And their future is not our story to tell them.