Re: MOD QUESTION
Not a pain at all - and you're absolutely right about more than meeting the minimum on what you're willing to write and receive. However, the sections for "unwilling to write" and "unwilling to receive" are maximums, and lumping the Carrows, the Gaunts, and the ghosts together in those slots puts you over.
If you wanted to change one of your "will not receive" elements to "ghosts," then you would be fine for the "will not give" character list and only one over for the "will not receive" character list.
I know it's picky, but the limitations are in place to ensure that people can be matched despite the broad range of characters involved.