Talking doesn't build trust. And we have been able to leave together to check Diagon Alley and Hogsmeade. So we leave and we don't come back. Can't get us if we're not here, because if it could, Glenda wouldn't be living the life in France.
I'm not asking you to lie. I'm saying maybe it's time to think outside the box. Isn't what you and Padma want? Outside the box means considering leaving this castle.