"If the lunches aren't working you don't have to do them." Harry seemed really upset about this, and Draco couldn't blame him. He went back to stroking his hair. "Or maybe just cut back? I'm not doing lunch with my father every day. I knew I couldn't be civil that often. Maybe just once a week. Or whatever works for you guys. You don't have to even look at it like giving up on them, just rearranging to fit the busier schedule or something like that." He knew how much Harry hated to admit defeat, and it must be a lot worse when it was his family.
"I could talk to Scorpius too, see if he has any insight? He actually knows them, he might know what they actually mean."