Jared
First off, watch your language, Jared. Second, I may not know you, but it obviously is bothering you. You've put thought into this, and as much as you really feel you don't care you're seeing something that happened to you happen to others and that's upsetting you. Your attitude is because of what happened to you. You had an incident with a person from what I gather. Not everyone has been awful to you. It seems that more than one person that has come in from where you are has been treated badly, but that doesn't mean that it's fair to lump everyone into that category. Was Grace awful to you? I highly doubt that. Was I? No, I don't think so. We are in this together, sweetheart. You don't have to like everyone, but you can't lump everyone not from your world into that category. If you're not open to voicing your concerns in a calm way then you need to face the truth of the matter. Removing yourself from the situation is not only unsafe on your part, but it's not healthy in the least. You're not doing yourself any favors. You're ostracizing yourself even more.
I'm not going to make excuses for Andy. That was the wrong reaction. I am not him, though. There's no place I could be from that I would ever do that. You're my son, and even if I don't know anything about you, it doesn't change anything, I would never react that way or shun you. Okay?