"Well I see why you say that might be the time then." He might not understand magic, but being unable to see the connection between love and sex and Joe and Ram would make him totally oblivious. He tried not to be totally oblivious. "We just have to get him back and I'm sure he'll help you make up for the holidays you missed having together." Not that Benny had any clue of how to get him back, but he was confident better placed people than him were working on it.
"You'd make a pretty outsize cat," he said, amused despite the terrible situation. He did have to shift his leg slightly because of the way Ram had curled up, mostly because he didn't want it to be dead in ten minutes. "Sorry I haven't been over much." He had visited, but he wasn't a great cook, he had no magic, and in a crowded house he didn't exactly feel like he was a small presence. "I can do this though." He squeezed Ram briefly tighter.