Plus, do you really want to be like Elena? I mean, she was a blast at the start, but then it was all blah blah got do whatever, boo fucking woo. I've lost two brothers, don't see me emotionless and with having my heart broke more times then we are even going to talk about, you got to suck it up.
The switch is a weak person escape hatch, your not weak. It's one of the things my brother likes about you. Something I'm even jealous of myself, but no way I'm telling you that