You know.... I'm not sure if this is true or not, but if it is, then I feel like we should be helping this person not putting their life out there for people to judge. I don't think anyone deserves this kind of public humiliation. Not that having a child is humiliating, but no one has the right to expose something that isn't their own, that they don't want exposed. No one has the right to take away someone's dignity like that.
I'm sorry, but this is so wrong. Please stop doing this.