For a moment she was speechless. Yes, they were both older and more mature then most people that courted. But still, it took a very, very self assured man to just accept her husband and feelings and issues she had with the man. "I really like how you say it as thought it's the most reasonable thing on the planet. Perhaps I have been out of the dating scene for a while-and of course I have-but still, I doubt that every man would be so willing to accept it. I really like that you can. It says a great deal about you."