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Tweak says, "Ridiculous! "

¡merche me! (smallmercies) wrote in gooseberry,
@ 2017-03-08 22:29:00

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! journal, mercedes estrada

chris? Ivy darling?? Is it hard being a bully??? I never thought I'd be good at it but maybe it's easier than I thought.

[ ooc: after this ( and i know ppl are having ij access issues so sorry if this was not the right place to post ) ]

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	Re: Ivy/Chris doyouevenlift 2017-03-08 07:25 pm UTC (link)
	I should've probably warned you that most prefects hate me before we did this. Nobody thinks you were actually malicious laughing at Patterson. When they talk about how cruel the joke was, nobody's actually thinking of you as cruel. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Ivy/Chris iviie 2017-03-08 07:27 pm UTC (link)
	Well now we know that even my presence isn't enough to save you from Ravi's disappointment. I mean. It was my idea. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Ivy/Chris doyouevenlift 2017-03-08 07:39 pm UTC (link)
	Nah it's fine [...] It was a good idea Just don't let it make you feel too shitty dude (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Ivy/Chris iviie 2017-03-08 07:40 pm UTC (link)
	I really didn't think it'd bug him that much. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Ivy/Chris doyouevenlift 2017-03-08 07:44 pm UTC (link)
	Me neither dude. But it wasn't bullying. We pranked the wrong dude. bullying is intentionally trying to hurt someone. Intent doesn't always work out how we plan it to but accidentally hurting someone isn't bullying. It's not ideal. But that doesn't make it bullying. You're not a bully Ivy. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Ivy/Chris iviie 2017-03-08 08:22 pm UTC (link)
	I mean, I know that, but if I'm on the Official Bully List other people are going to think I am. God, I hope they're not going to tell my parents about this. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Ivy/Chris doyouevenlift 2017-03-08 09:26 pm UTC (link)
	Then those people are dumbasses. Nobody's gonna think you're a bully. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Ivy/Chris iviie 2017-03-08 09:29 pm UTC (link)
	~~My dad absolutely will if~~ Probably not! You're right! Are you okay? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Ivy/Chris doyouevenlift 2017-03-08 09:38 pm UTC (link)
	This is any given Wednesday for me dude. I'm fine. I know this is a little overwhelming. It's like a pile on effect for something that doesn't feel like it warrants it. Just try to go with the stream, let it wash over you. Or it'll drag you under. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Ivy/Chris iviie 2017-03-08 09:44 pm UTC (link)
	They're just trying to do their jobs, I know. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

Re: Ivy/Chris

doyouevenlift
2017-03-08 09:49 pm UTC (link)

[...]

We're the example. They're doing their jobs. But they're also gonna make it damn clear they're gonna do their jobs.

They had to draw first blood no matter how benign. Even tho we didn't actually antagonize him or escalate the situation even after he got mad. Even though we would've stopped without interference. This is setting the example that they're not cutting slack for anybody.

Which is fair. I mean probably unfair for you since you're not an actual asshole. But it's detention. If it was harsher I'd fight it. but it's just detention. Hopefully this'll make bullying more manageable instead of making the anon post even worse than it already is.

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	Re: Ivy/Chris iviie 2017-03-08 09:52 pm UTC (link)
	Yeah. Yeah. [...] Do you think I should wait a day to apologize or just do it now? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

Re: Ivy/Chris

doyouevenlift
2017-03-09 01:09 am UTC (link)

depends who you're planning to apologize to

i already apologized to patterson. but i don't give too much of a shit about his opinion of me.

you're his friend, so you probably give more of a shit about how he feels about you. You might want to wait a day for him to get over it tho. It's hard to take apologies as genuine when you're still upset.

if you're talking about when to apologize to a prefect, you fucking got me. They're allergic to apologies from me, but they probably already know you're sorry.

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	Re: Ivy/Chris iviie 2017-03-09 01:11 am UTC (link)
	I meant to Casey. Should I apologize to the prefects? I'm so bad at getting in trouble. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Ivy/Chris doyouevenlift 2017-03-09 01:15 am UTC (link)
	I usually apologize to Cunningham. Sometimes I apologize to Ramirez. Or Honeychurch if he has to give me his disappointed face. It's like a disappointed dad face. It's weirdly guilt inducing. You'd probably want to apologize to Ravi? I dunno. Or not? I mean, he probably knows you're already sorry? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Ivy/Chris iviie 2017-03-09 01:17 am UTC (link)
	Dad face is what gets me about Ravi. It's so much worse than anger! I'll do that, I guess, although I'm sure he does know. Maybe I'll apologize to Maggie, too. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Ivy/Chris doyouevenlift 2017-03-09 01:21 am UTC (link)
	lmao the only apology maggie's getting from me is the apology about the massive commenting on this 'blowing it out of proportion' because she doesn't have a dad face. She doesn't really inspire guilt. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Ivy/Chris iviie 2017-03-09 01:31 am UTC (link)
	I mean, we caused a scene and she intervened. She probably didn't want to give us detention. (Reply to this) (Parent)

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