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Regen Unda (gaspingbreath) wrote in gooseberry,
@ 2016-12-13 20:48:00

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[Warded to Bailey and An]

Okay. So, since I am going to this formal dance and I'm stuck currently on the trails, I figured I'd ask the two of you;
How one goes about asking someone to a dance? What should you look for in a date?
I'm not sure what Bailey was intending to teach me, but now that the dance is a few days away.

[Warded to Ebonhide Sophomore boys]
What do people normally wear to formal events here? Just a question while I'm waiting to be rescued.

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	Bae/An/Kele alohaha 2016-12-13 08:55 pm UTC (link)
	Oh no! Do you need to be rescued? I can come help you out if needed. Or maybe Bae would be less weird? Anyway, I can help! Bae still has room if you want her to set you up, that's very easy! In terms of what you look for, that's up to you! What do you find fun about spending time with people? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	Bae/An/Kele gaspingbreath 2016-12-13 09:41 pm UTC (link)
	I might. I'm hoping someone will come by. I saved a few yesterday, maybe they'll return the favour. Are a lot of people using Bailey's matching? I don't know, the energy they bring, their smiles? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Bae/An/Kele alohaha 2016-12-13 10:30 pm UTC (link)
	Let me know, I'll have a cheek kiss with your name on it. Of course, she's really good at it! Hmm. Those are good things. Bae can take that into consideration. Can you give examples of the kind of energy or smiles you find interesting? Just so she has something to go on. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Bae/An/Kele gaspingbreath 2016-12-13 10:47 pm UTC (link)
	High energy. Positive energy. Quiet energy. I like unexpected smiles of the quiet or people who smile at everything. This mistletoe stuff has brought more people to my attention, I guess. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Bae/An/Kele alohaha 2016-12-13 11:35 pm UTC (link)
	That does give her something for sure. Anyone we'd know that you've seen display these? Just as an example? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Bae/An/Kele gaspingbreath 2016-12-15 11:36 pm UTC (link)
	I... successfully asked Hazel since she seemed like she would be energetic and freeform. I wasn't actually expecting her to say yes. (Reply to this) (Parent)

Bae/An/Kele.

cyrano
2016-12-14 11:37 am UTC (link)

There's no "should" about it, honey. There's no one size fits all date for every person. Who do you like? Or, if you don't like anyone, what kind of person do you like? Then, you figure out who as school has those traits and then try asking them to the dance.

I can, as your cousin said, also set you up if you want to sign your name on my sheet. I'm fixing people up Friday.

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	Bae/An/Kele. gaspingbreath 2016-12-14 11:46 am UTC (link)
	At least most people understand the generalized gender they like, though my thoughts on that are broader than most haole. The people who saved me yesterday or who I saved where the kind of people I like, I guess. But each for a different reason. Can I ask who is on the list? Heh. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

Bae/An/Kele.

cyrano
2016-12-14 11:56 am UTC (link)

That's a good place to start then. Ask any of them if they have a date to the dance and if they'd like to go to you, since you've already interacted with them enough to know you like them a bit.

Absolutely not. I want people to sign up because they want my service, not because they wanna try and bribe me into setting them up with this person or that person who signed up.

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	Bae/An/Kele. gaspingbreath 2016-12-14 12:19 pm UTC (link)
	I think most of them barely know I'm alive. I might as well go alone and offer dances to everyone. Oh, I wasn't going to try and bribe you. I really just wanted to know who not to ask. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Bae/An/Kele. cyrano 2016-12-14 01:39 pm UTC (link)
	They obviously know you're alive if they freed you from the mistletoe, or vice versa, just yesterday. Give yourself a little more credit. Although there's nothing wrong with going stag neither. Ask anyone you want! If they signed up for my arrangements, they'll probably let you know — or let me know to take them off, if they accept your invitation. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	Re: Bae/An/Kele. gaspingbreath 2016-12-15 11:35 pm UTC (link)
	I... successfully asked Hazel since she seemed like she would be energetic and freeform. I wasn't actually expecting her to say yes. (Reply to this) (Parent)