Jacen
I know that I didn't mean it like that I just thought he'd like to be in the loop with what we both know. Just so he isn't like "Why are you both so bummed out or stressed or whatever?"
Well I mean if he says he wants to visit her at home since that was the last we heard before what you just told me. So I mean if he says he wants to visit her I should tell him that she's sick and at the hospital and we need to wait until her mom gives the okay?