Quit your wining and man up. Their are plenty of guys on this island, and its not a science project. If you want to try dating or even just fucking a guy then do it. I want to help you dude, but short of fucking you myself, which isn't going to happen you need to take the lead for yourself. What about Jimmy?
You get experience by acting not by waiting. Stop being scared, You are well built and take care of yourself. If you were a couple years older I would totally hit on you. Have some goddamned faith in yourself for once. I could ask Tristan if he knows anyone if you want?