I don't think she'll bite your dick off, when I see her at Twisty's she wears a smile, but I can see in her eyes that she's just sort of broken and lonely. I think she's more afraid you'll bite her head off or ignore her if she tries to contact you. Also in another journal post she did mention something about when boys care about you their words can come across as angry and harsh but deep down they do care. So I don't think she'll snap. I don't really think she's at a place where she's even able to snap.
Also a little thing to lighten this whole thing and I sort have just been wanting to shout it from the rooftops...Alan told me he loved me for the first time today. <3