Well when you do figure it out let me know. But think on this please, why do you care if I flirt? Because, you wanted things to stay as they were, and you are correct, I do flirt with everyone. The difference is I have never told anyone else that I am in love with them.
There's nothing wrong with me helping someone to feel special for a minute. I was just hoping you would let me make you feel special for a bit longer than a minute.