Mm, I don't much like that myself, but it doesn't bother me to the point of not reading them. It just makes it all the sweeter when I find something well done, like florida_minxie's stuff. I was just curious because when I first started reading Snarry I remember seeing a lot of people who were all about reading the bdsm stories, but it seems that as a whole we've become more picky about that particular genre recently.
Mm, it was If You Are Prepared an The Civil War Verse that really won me over. Snarry might be my OTP because of all the slashy goodness hidden in the canon, but it's my fandom home because of all the people who do such a wonderful job showing the slashy subtext. ^_^