I meant not fun to read because a lot of it seems to just be written as a way to torture the characters, thrown into the fic for no other reason. People who I have spoken to in the lifestyle stress that it is entirely consensual on the parts all people involved, and a lot of the BDSM stories I see out there are not. So I stay away from that genre as a general rule. Like all rules, I'll break it with good reason (if someone I trust recs me something. :))
And yes, we are lucky! Between the Tea Series and Tiranog's fics I knew Snarry was where I wanted to be, and it remains my OTP.