I can't help but feel partially responsible for it. From my understanding, there was this massive purge and the new people who dropped in are a result of said purge. I'm one of those new people...
I know how it feels to lose your parents at the same time, though. My drug addict of a "dad" died of an overdose, and my mom died of a lung hemorrhage. It was one and then the other when I got the news.
I don't know if having someone who can relate is what will help you right now, though... but if you need someone to cry to, I'm at the End Zone.