You especially should be better than this. You're someone's MOM now, dude. You want someone talking about "breaking" your kid when she's terrified?
I mean it. You know I love ya, but... This isn't "fun-loving Bea" here. So show some respect and don't tell me to "chill". I'm in full Royal Princess mode when I say "both of you drop out of this thread right TF now".