Disclaimer: I'm still in the hospital and still sick. So I'm a little cranky.
There is nothing wrong with being impulsive. In fact, I encourage it. That's how I got where I am today.
I honestly feel like there have been some wires crossed. Because absolutely nothing Lita and I have said to you can be defined as "judgemental". And even if it is? Not all judgments are negative.
It's just that... it's almost like you want to have that negativity in your life. Like as if you are so used to having someone shit on you, so you feel that's how life works. And if it is? It really hurts that you've chosen us to project that onto. Because point-blank? You don't need both positive and negative in your life to be balanced. Not at the same time, anyway.