Re: Ginny | Mere You sure it's not because she opened her mouth?
Knock if off, Mere, you're not helping...
It's not wrong to take longer than expected to recover from a shitty break-up, Ginny. Some people legit do take years to pull out from that bullshit. You're also not like, well, me. You don't deal with pain by getting under people. Or on top of them. But whatever!
Best thing I can suggest? Channel your pain into songs, get out with friends so that you don't into a recluse, and keep living as best the life as you can. Maybe someone here will spark something in you to finally really want to try again. Who the hell knows? New people show up all the time.