I'm sorry, Abby. I didn't mean to trivialize anything you've been through.
I just feel like... honestly, I thought I was asexual for years. Because I never had even remotely sexual thoughts about anyone.
But when I saw Penny the first time... it unlocked that part of me. And I realized that I had those thoughts and feelings, I was just too scared and traumatized to realize they were there. And I felt like she got me in a way nobody else could.
But I have NO chance with her, and now all I did was possibly harm our friendship forever.