"Maybe focus more on the present and future when it comes to her" Jef suggested after a bit of thinking as he looked over at her. He wasn't one to speak before thinking. He always put thought into what he was going to say before he said, especially when it come to serious conversations. "How your day was, what you're leaning in school, people you've met here, things you're looking forward to like Christmas. Stuff like that. Just normal every day conversation, you know? It's easy to avoid stories of your childhood so she's not spoiled if you really try"