I mean, I get where you were coming from when you made that post, and you know I'm always 100% in your corner. But I can also see her POV, you know? She opened up to you and then you made a post about not wanting to let people in. I can see how she might have taken that personally.
I know this isn't really what you wanted to hear, but maybe you shouldn't be considering dating anyone- even if you're taking things slow- until you're over Todd.