"Ah. One of those. I suspect it is the same for many people - and not just the Asian families, either."
Although naturally, a nurturing family would want to know the going-ons of everyone's life, the nature of this job dictated otherwise and required some form of confidentiality.
"For a good number of us, we are not here for the salary and other bonuses. You do your job and you do it well - navigating around family and in doing so keep them safe; that is all they can ask of you."