That was actually a decent answer for her. She had heard it said in many different tones of voice, most of them loving. Not all of them though. Asking wasn't really what she was about though, she didn't think anyone really understood WHY they wanted to do things the way they did.
Well, it isn't like she's going to steal his coffee cup and drink his coffee without asking. That would be rude. She was many things, some of them did kind of freak people out, but she was not rude. "So have I..." which is one of the reasons she would not do so.
She was.. almost the opposite, with her piercings, her dark hair, pale skin, gothic mien and and fetish clothing she seemed the monster, while beneath was a submissive, kind, masochistic soul rather than one that could be considered monstrous.