Private to Rolf/Rose
Oh shite, I completely forgot to consider if your parents would be there. I'd forgotten they know the Cappers.
Flooing Grandfather now.
Okay, he says he knows they're out of the country and will be for a bit longer, at least. (For all their overlapped interests, I give this to him -- he has never minded that I asked so long ago to keep them out of our events.)