As she watched his reaction Gwenog's face softened slightly, she could feel her tension loosening slightly and the realness of her smile intensifying. It was hard to describe but there were levels of how comfortable she felt in a situation as to how real she allowed herself to be. She'd already begun to relax away from her defensive public face when she'd encountered someone with a connection, and this was just another layer of connection. She recognised the twitch of him giving himself over somewhat.
His words only confirmed it and she nodded slowly, shifting her stance slightly as her Domme instincts came to the fore. The admission he didn't often sleep with women made her pause slightly, but she was already sure he was more than willing. She could work with that. Give him something close to what he might expect. There was calculation in her gaze, even as she kept it steadily on him. She was an excellent strategist, both by instinct and training, and she enjoyed using that in her private life as well as her job and there were scenarios running through her head already. "Okay. Well I can tell you're going to be very good for me," she said, a touch of command creeping into her voice. "But before we start I need to ask a couple of things. I'm not going too far since this is a one off and I wasn't expecting this tonight, but what are your limits? Is there anything you definitely don't want or won't do? And do you know the colour system for safety and are you happy using it? And do you have a safeword too?"
She wanted, desperately now, to kiss him, claim his mouth, let his head tip back and let her take control, but she had to keep them both safe. She kept her hand on his face but let it be their only real point of contact. This was a moment for negotiation not coercion.