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No, that's not what I'm saying either. Consider the scenario, where a woman you've been with finds herself pregnant. She makes the decision to keep the child, however knowing and respecting you and the life you lead she does not want you to feel obliged by the choice SHE made. It may be misguided concern and I'm not saying it's right, I'm just saying that it doesn't necessarily comes from a bad place.
Do you want to get the Ward tested by a professional?
I will let them know and get back to you on the arrangements.