Yes, her ability to be the perfect society lady would have been a reason Isidore agreed to the match. And she's more than welcome to try and make Isidore see what a prize he's married and value and care for her more than he does. :D Might be fun to see what happens there.
Yes! That'd be great! I don't have access to AIM for the next couple of days (it's blocked by my work) but I will be around on gmail.