Is there a scene in which dead!OMC/Justin's partner's best friend confronts Justin about keeping dead!OMC away from his friends? I think the best friend's name is Paul. I also seem to recall him confronting Justin (and Brian) in a restaurant. I don't think it was HIV but cancer that killed poor dead!OMC. I think, at some point, Justin goes back to CA (or wherever this think takes place) and talk to Paul about dead!OMC's last wishes.