No. Don't ascribe motive to him where there might be none. He's not here. You don't know why. It's equally possible that the Seelie Queen locked him in her dungeons and then forgot he was there.
The problem with accepting bad things is that it puts you in a dangerous position. Perhaps a man is arrogant, and while you don't care for this trait, you accept it because— [And here, she sneers, just a little.] —you love him. As you go on, your love sours because you tolerate a trait that, truthfully, drives you mad. Bear in mind: I'm not saying you force change on someone, nor am I saying you cut off anyone who doesn't fit your perfect idea of a partner. But you must weigh and measure what's important to you. What's intolerable, tolerable, and wonderful. Don't accept a lover simply because they pay attention to you. Accept a lover because they fit with you.
[She hums softly.]
You should stay with Niall and me. Did you bring things with you? I'll have them moved to my suite.