Ah, love. ma'am is so formal ;) Just Lily is fine.
Clothing, as I think we're short on that. A range of sizes. While most people do seem to be in the realm of average, we do occasionally have children that get drawn on board.
Canned goods and bottled water, and drink mixes. Other non-perishable dried goods are always a plus. As this reality seems very nice, I think we should all take advantage of it and buy or borrow as much as we can while we're here.
We are doing all right, but we were doing all right for a little while before the stop at the resort, and we don't know if we'll ever get another of those, or when the next nice stop will be. So I'd rather err on the side of overstocking than starvation.