Hm. I get that. The only competitiveness that was encouraged when I was being trained was not being the one that wound up... eliminated. But I like to play games with my friends now. I'm not always really good at them, and I lose a lot, but I think the social experience is more the point of it than the actual winning. But there's always sore losers, one of my teammates ate the Monopoly board.
Anyway, there's none of those types of missions here, so you're free to go about it however you want. And if you're afraid of targeting somebody and making them upset, you can always go for me.