I thought about making them high school sweethearts, but mid twenties is close enough. Verbal abuse might have been present in their marriage, but then you see how he is now. He's only half serious about it though I'm sure Lucille took some of it to heart.
Now you have me picturing a FB for Negan...like what would it even say? Hobbies: bashing in brains, making spaghetti, being a BAMF. hahaaa
How dare you call him soft! lol though I do think he should have killed Rosita, but then he rewards bravery but punishes the action by killing another. And Eugene? Now why would he kill a coward who's easily manipulated and can make him home made bullets? That's quite an asset to simply toss aside.