[Vivale] [............] I want to be able to make decisions without having to worry about what others will think, whether it's improper for a married woman or not. I want the freedom to [.....] choose my own partner, I want the freedom to choose if I even want to be married. I don't know how I can have these things in the current situation without just abandoning everything I hold dea[...] and that would be [....] losing too much.